In loving memory of my great aunt millie, who taught me by example (among many many other things) real beauty comes from the inside out… strength in the face of fear or pain and even a combination of the two… take the risk if you want the reward… convention may work for some women, just not us… inspiration comes from great travels… fabulous jewelry makes the outfit… never follow someone else’s path when you can chart your own… to be independent is to be in a great relationship, with yourself… family first… spirit and determination overpower any challenges of age or gender… sometimes it’s as simple as going to get your hair and nails done… take care of your sister (even if she’s not related!)… there’s no better gift you can give than tons of hugs and affection.